A couple years ago I read Ben Bergeronโs book Chasing Excellence. It tells the story of his process in building some of the fittest athletes on the planet in their trek to win The CrossFit Games.
This book came back to mind this past week as I left the gym after coaching a couple of training sessions. Unfortunately, weโre back in the thick of high COVID cases in our area, and to minimize risk of spread in our gym our doors are open. Not a big deal if it wasnโt the middle of winter in the midwest, but it is and itโs cold.
Although I was only in for a couple hours the other day, the vibe was just low. People were bundled up and the main topic of conversation revolved around the current climate they were working out or working in. It may not have been direct complaining, but it wasnโt the positive atmosphere we want to create inside our walls.
So back to the book.
Bergeron actually references a point of training for Katrin Davidsdottir where he had her complete a warm up outsideโฆin the middle of winterโฆIn Boston. It was cold. He explains how after the warm up Katrin provided feedback on the warm up and her approach and then stops herself before also commenting on the weather. She stopped herself before she said it because she โhad been conditioned not to complainโ.
Now you might be thinking, โKatrin is one of the best in the world in the sport of CrossFit, her and I donโt really need to follow the same rules in lifeโ. But maybe you should.
Here is what Bergeron explains about complaining in the book:
Saying that itโs cold outside may appear to be simply stating a fact, but itโs actually more detrimental than it might seem in the short term. Focusing on negative feelings or circumstancesโItโs hot out. Iโm tired. This traffic sucks. My boss is such an idiotโBrings greater focus to things that are ultimately outside of your control and are potentially detrimental to your performance. In no competitive or life scenario will focusing on negative uncontrollable factors improve your performance or stress levels.
An optimistic mindset is a distinguishable characteristic of elite performers because what the human mind focuses on and talks about is what we see more of.
Iโll stop there although I could probably quote the entire chapter on this topic. Letโs just take the above context into consideration as we approach our current โclimateโ. Yes, itโs cold outside. And itโs cold in the gym. And weโre tired of dealing with COVID. And masks suck. And youโre boss is an idiot (I really donโt know that, just threw it in there. Ha!) Stating all of that doesnโt change any of the circumstances nor benefit you or anyone around you in a positive way. However it does affect them in a negative way. Stating all of that only highlights it more and takes away from the mission weโre on which is to help the people in our community live better lives through better health and fitness. We will pursue that mission regardless of weather, or politics, or a global pandemic.
For our clients: You GET to come to the gym everyday and workout with a great group of people.
For our staff: You GET to serve our people everyday and help them accomplish great things in their lives.
Your mindset is many times linked to your perspective and your perspective is the story you tell yourself about a certain situation. As we embark on the unknown of this journey ahead of us, letโs tell ourselves the right story and keep making our gym a light in our community!
Stay healthy my friends,
Coach Josh